A few teachers have their children moving on to the next chapter of their lives by going to college. Some of these include teachers Erin Balfour and Autumn Goodwin. Some have children who aren’t in college yet, but will go soon, like teacher Ryan Arnold.
There are the struggles, as Balfour describes missing her son, William Balfour, while he’s gone at Texas State University.
“We are a close family, and it feels like something is missing without him,” Balfour said. “Our family dynamic is definitely different, but we are adjusting to a new normal. I think it might be easier on us because he is only 45 minutes to an hour away, so not too far.”
There are the good opportunities college creates, like Goodwin’s son going to spend his final semester in LA to audition for roles.
“I know he will find work as an actor,” Goodwin said. “Having a son in college at UT fills me with pride, but also makes me feel old. I can’t believe he is so grown.”
And there are the conflicting feelings, as Arnold describes his feelings as both nervous and excited for his daughter going to college in the future.
“Of course, you know, being the father of a daughter, you’re always worried about her finding herself in a situation that’s less than desirable, and things of that nature,” Arnold said. “But for the most part, I believe that I’ve given my daughter the tools to be successful and understand where to protect herself and experience life on her terms.”
Balfour had heard from William about the possibility of him taking internships over the summer.
“I am excited for William to have the opportunity to learn from experts and make connections that can help him find a job after college,” Balfour said. “The opportunity to really dive deep into what he cares about is the best opportunity college offers academically. Socially, he is getting to perfect his ability to problem solve independently and navigate social situations. Those skills are so vital for life success.”
Arnold had spent his college years in community college and the military, which is a vast difference from his wife.
“My wife did go to a five year master’s program in St. Louis, and some of her college friends are still some of her closest friends today,” Arnold said. “And I’m very excited for my daughter to hopefully make those same kinds of connections and experiences.”
